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“When he (Carter) decided to quit, we decided to keep it going,” Miles said.

Bowen, a retired UW-River Falls basketball coach and athletic director, and Miles, Carter’s nephew and retired Unity School District teacher and coach, have recruited their fellow coffee clutch members Denny Burich, Jay Whalen, Keith Rodli, Bill Hendrix, George Baumgartner, Bill Halverson, Dave Cronk, Don Richards and Dave Linehan to raise money and collect food donations for the River Falls Community Food Pantry. You can find them many mornings joking and chatting over coffee at the Caribou in Family Fresh.

“Jerry gave us a hard time,” Bowen said. “’It takes a lot of you to pull off what I used to do by myself,’ he’d say.”

Carter, a lifelong community activist, veteran, coach and American Legion Post 121 member, died Dec. 20, 2020. Keeping the food drive going is a way to keep Carter’s legacy alive in the community he loved dearly.

Germanson, a retired UWRF registrar, lives in town and tries to make a cameo appearance each year, Bowen said.

“In a nutshell, Jerry was service-oriented,” Bowen said. While the exact inspiration for the food drive’s beginnings is unknown, Miles recalled Carter telling a story about a little girl who wondered how people in need would get food for Christmas. He gathered blankets, socks, coats, anything he could collect to help those in need, Miles said. It morphed into a food drive.

“The food pantry moving forward seemed a natural way to continue,” Carter said.

Traditionally, each year the group raises about $10,000 in cash and donates seven pickup loads of food to the food pantry. While food donations are always appreciated, money can help people’s kindness stretch further, the men said. For each $1 someone donates, the food pantry can get $6-7 worth of food at a local warehouse food supplier.

However, Miles said he understands that some people, especially children, enjoy donating something tangible. A little girl stands out in his memory who brought down canned food two years ago and was so proud to donate it.

Last year, the pandemic didn’t hinder the Grumpy Old Men’s resolve to continue helping the food pantry. A virtual event was held and the community was encouraged to mail or drop off donations at the food pantry during the month of November. In 2019, the group raised $12,500 in cash and more than 600 pounds of food.

“With Jerry passing in December, we just wanted to make sure this continues,” Miles said. It’s all about what he started. It’s his legacy and I think he would be happy.”

The Grumpy Old Men live by the mantra that if you’re kind and do for others, kindness and service will spread. This fall, Miles challenged the UW-River Falls football team to bring in their spare change for the food pantry. He told them if they brought in $100, the W.I.N.G.S. Foundation (which he started with his wife) would match it. Emery Driving School said they’d match $100 too. Imagine his surprise when the team brought in $1,000. He was delighted.

“When you do an act of kindness like that, you never walk away feeling bad,” Miles said. “It gives back to you 10-fold. You never hear anyone say they feel bad for doing a good deed.”

Those wishing to support the Grumpy Old Men food drive have two options: 1. Drop off donations of food or money at the Veterans Park flagpole 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Tuesday, Nov. 30.

2. Mail a check to: River Falls Food Pantry c/o Grumpy Old Men 705 St. Croix St. PO Box 341 River Falls, WI 54022 Please make checks payable to “River Falls Food Pantry” and write “c/o Grumpy Old Men” in the memo line.

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The original Grumpy Old Men Jerry Carter and Mel Germanson (seated) passed the reigns to successors Craig Miles and Rick Bowen after their last food drive in 2018. Photo courtesy of Rick Bowen

Jerry Carter and his son Greg Carter (who will be at this year’s food drive) pictured at a past Grumpy Old Men food drive in Veterans Park. Photo courtesy of Craig Miles

November 23, 2021